Essential tips for having a dog at your wedding in the Bay Area

As a wedding photographer, I’ve seen it all, from furry friends as ring bearers to four-legged performers stealing the show. If you’re thinking of including your beloved pooch in your big day, here are 8 things you should keep in mind to ensure it’s a tail-wagging success – for all involved!

1. Plan, plan, plan: Before you decide to bring your furry friend to your wedding, make sure your venue is pet-friendly and arrange for a designated handler to look after them during the ceremony and reception. Also consider your guests and determine if anyone might be scared or allergic! Consider logistics such as their transportation and access for their handler for their drop off and pick up. 

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2. Be honest with yourself: Not all dogs will do well at large, bustling events like weddings – and that’s ok! If your dog becomes easily agitated or frightened, it may be best to leave them at home. Perhaps they are better suited for an intimate photo shoot with just your photographer!

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3. Dress them to impress: You want your dog to look as good as you do on your wedding day! Make sure their outfit is comfortable and doesn’t impede their movement. A simple bandana or bow tie will do the trick. Avoid accoutrement that might end up falling off and getting gnawed on.

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4. Hydration is key: Weddings can be long, tiring events, and your dog will need plenty of water to stay hydrated. Make sure you have a water bowl readily available for them throughout the day. Additionally you will want to prep their handler with their food, treats, doggie bags, and perhaps even some toys. 

5. Never leave them alone: Your dog should never be left alone during your wedding, even for a few minutes. They may become anxious or disoriented without you there, and could end up running off or causing a disturbance. Again, make sure someone is aware of their responsibilities regarding your beloved dog!

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6. Accidents happen: Accidents can happen, even with the most well-behaved dogs. The last thing you want to deal with is a less than savory stain at a historic venue or on you or your guests’ outfit. Make sure you have cleaning supplies handy in case your dog has an accident during the ceremony or reception.

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7. Capture the moment: Make sure your photographer gets some shots of your furry friend on your big day. After all, you’ve put in all the effort to make sure they are well taken care of and smiling! 

8. Have fun: The most important thing is to make sure everyone, including your furry friend, is having a good time and no one is stressed out or uncomfortable. Have a backup plan with the handler in case something goes awry or the pooch needs a rest from the excitement of the event!

Incorporating your dog into your wedding can be a wonderful way to add a special touch to your big day, but it’s essential to be prepared and ensure that both you and your furry friend are having fun. By keeping these eight things in mind, you’ll be well on your way to creating a memorable and stress-free wedding experience for everyone involved.

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2019 a year in wedding moments

2019 was a big year over here. After moving to the San Francisco Bay Area in June of 2017, and flying to NYC, Boston, and Philadelphia countless times to photograph weddings in 2017 & 2018, my 2019 wedding season was 95% California weddings. I feel grateful for the shift and the growth, which has allowed me to spend more time close to home running to the beach and eating breakfast tacos in the backyard with my wife on Sunday mornings.

This year I witnessed great beauty and connection up and down the coast, and I was introduced to new traditions: From redwood cathedrals dusted with rose petals in Mendocino, to dusty ranches lit up with colorful saris down in San Benito County. From Greek feasts in hidden urban gardens, to foggy hilltop wedding brunches. From pretzel dances in Silicon Valley, to rooftop ragers in Soma. From boxer dogs in tailored tuxes, to gold sequin party dresses just for dancing.

There were lots of saxophones at weddings this year. I certainly hope that trend endures. One of the saxophonists wore a cow suit. I had the distinct pleasure of listening to my first wedding podcast, including a hilarious interview with the flower girl. One couple drove into their wedding at Fort Mason on their tandem bicycle right up to the altar, another drove away from their City Hall wedding on a getaway motorcycle with a veil flying behind the bride’s helmet. I learned about 2nd lines, the Gujarati Garba Dance, Hula, and Cosplay. This was also a year of micro-weddings. Such intimate affairs. 10 souls at a gorgeous farmhouse on a Vineyard in Sonoma, 18 in a backyard in Napa, 10 on Synagogue grounds in Santa Clara County. But, there were large affairs as well in clubhouses with fantastic views of the majestic San Francisco skyline, elegant white gowns with long trains, 10-piece bands. There was a wedding newspaper, a bouquet of paper airplanes, and a custom-printed Shehecheyanu shawl draped over a pair of embracing brides just-married on a foggy Marin mountaintop.

I want to take this moment to thank every last person who invited me in to witness their weddings, to witness their families,, and their communities breaking bread, singing, laughing, dancing, crying, etc. etc. I loved all of it. I feel immensely grateful, and I look forward to next year, which should prove to be another glorious year full of ritual and awe.

(2020 is already 75% booked…eeeep!!!)


Trione Wedding

Trione Wedding – Sonoma, CA – Jill & Jason

Jill & Jason were married at Trione Vineyards and Winery in Sonoma County, CA on a lovely day with diffuse light everywhere. The light gave the Vineyards a majestic moody look out behind the Winery, and they made for an incredible backdrop for our portraits. 


I loved the rustic stone walls, the vaulted ceilings, and dark wooden beams in the event space at Trione. They lent an old world feel to the wedding ceremony and to evening reception as well.


Jason is a collector of film cameras and a talented street photographer. During the ceremony they had their officiant and friend make a photograph of all of their guests on a film camera. They intend to slowly take photos over the next ten years on momentous occasions, and only after a decade has passed, will they get the roll of film developed.


And… much will happen in those ten years, as Jill & Jason are world travelers. One of the cornerstones of their relationship is their love of travel, so they brought a bucket to the reception, and guests were encouraged to leave them suggestions for their “Bucket List.” 


As you can see, Jill & Jason invited me to bring my Hasselblad to Trione to make a few wedding portraits. It gave me great pleasure to put a few rolls of film through my old trusty friend.

Special thanks to Lisa Bravo of Bravo Events and Weddings who made everything flow smoothly throughout the day.

Wedding planner : Lisa Bravo
Hair : Amy Braem
Makeup : Nicolette Lafranchi
DJ : NorCal Pro Sound
Catering : Girl and Fig


“Documentary wedding photography” 7 reasons why this is what you really want.

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Documentary Wedding Photography
San Francisco Bay Area
Hazelphoto
Paul Gargagliano
hazelphoto.com

The Work · The Philosophy

Seven Reasons You Need a
Documentary Wedding Photographer

Not every couple does. But if any of the following sound like you, you probably do.

Documentary wedding photograph — Hazel Photo

Cavallo Point · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

The pictures you remember longest aren’t the posed ones. They’re the ones that put you back in the room — the noise, the feeling, the specific quality of the light at 7pm. That’s what documentary wedding photography is actually after.

1Reason One

You want to feel your wedding, not just see it.

Not a record of what happened. A record of what it was like. Years after the fact, the images that stay are the ones that make you feel the room again.

Wedding, Napa — Hazel Photo

Stanly Ranch, Napa Valley

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Carneros Resort, Napa

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San Francisco, CA

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Leal Vineyards, Hollister, CA

2Reason Two

You have people worth photographing.

Your best friend doing the worm. Your mom teasing her sister. Your dad hugging you with tears in his eyes. Your niece with that look like she’s quietly plotting world takeover.

A documentary photographer is there when the moment happens.

These moments exist at every wedding. A documentary photographer is there when they happen, not somewhere else setting up a shot of the centerpieces.

Wedding photograph on film — Hazel Photo

Stinson Beach · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

3Reason Three

You’d like someone with an actual eye, not just a camera.

There’s a difference between photographing a wedding and seeing one. The meaningful gesture half-hidden behind a guest. The expression that lasts a fraction of a second. The frame within the frame that makes an ordinary moment look inevitable.

These aren’t things you can direct. They’re things you learn to recognize after years of paying very close attention.

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Santa Cruz Mountains · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

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Conservatory of Flowers · SF

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Portra · Urban Adamah · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

4Reason Four

You don’t want a second first look.

Hold on — how would that even work? A first look, by definition, happens once. The fact that some photographers schedule a do-over tells you something important about their relationship to authenticity.

A first look, by definition, happens once.

Documentary wedding photographers don’t restage. They wait. The patience required to wait for the real thing — rather than manufacture a version of it — is the same patience that produces the images you’ll still be looking at in twenty years.

Wedding recessional, University Club of San Francisco — Hazel Photo

University Club · Santa Cruz Mountains · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Chinese wedding, Silicon Valley — Hazel Photo

Silicon Valley · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

5Reason Five

You want pictures that actually look like you.

Some wedding photography doesn’t see the couple — it sees a generic idea of romance and drops two people into it. You spent a year planning an event that reflects who you actually are. The photographs should be able to tell.

A documentary photographer pays attention to the specific, not the stock.

Wedding photography on film — Hazel Photo

Healdsburg · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Wedding photography on film — Hazel Photo

Santa Rosa · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Wedding recessional, Beltane Ranch — Hazel Photo

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Documentary wedding photograph — Hazel Photo

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Documentary wedding photograph — Hazel Photo

Aptos, CA · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

6Reason Six

You’d like your wedding to feel like a wedding.

Not a production. Not a photoshoot that happens to have guests. When a photographer takes over — three cameras, constant direction, blocking the aisle for angles — the event stops being the event and becomes the backdrop for someone else’s portfolio.

Let the day be exactly what it is.

Documentary wedding photography runs the other direction: be present, don’t interfere, let the day be what it is.

Wedding photography on film — Hazel Photo

Wine Country · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Wedding photograph on film — Hazel Photo

The Presidio · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Muir Beach, documentary wedding — Hazel Photo

Muir Beach · Marin, CA · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

Wedding photograph on film — Hazel Photo

Stinson Beach · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

7Reason Seven

You chose your florals for a reason.

The color of your dress. The specific peach of the ranunculus. The warm late-afternoon light you planned around. Heavy post-processing can erase all of it — desaturated to the point of gray, color-graded into someone else’s signature look, retouched into something closer to illustration than photography.

Documentary processing starts from a different premise: faithfully reproduce what was actually there. The colors you chose deserve to survive the edit.

Wedding photograph on film — Hazel Photo

Nestldown · Paul Gargagliano — Hazel Photo

From the archive

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Let’s talk about your wedding.

Fifteen years of unrepeatable days. Yours could be next.

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